Play-Doh: "Jia eat?" It seems that most everything (Play-Doh included) is new (and fun) to Jia. Ah, but how to keep someone safe when, at the age of 10, she has no experience with, for example: stoves (she turned on the gas to cook a box of rice--in the box), strangers and/or cars (while drawing with chalk on the driveway with me, she jumped in the backseat of a car that stopped to look at a house for sale across the street), opening car doors at stoplights, going to the bathroom while walking the dogs (hey, the dogs go in the grass, right?!), and on and on and on. Again, there is so much to teach and to learn. She is bright and extraordinarily capable. In an hour, she could completely reconfigure my computer--yet she has no experience with cars, strangers, water, phones, stores, or most anything else that we take for granted. Fortunately, we have been there at every second to try to explain and teach (albeit with hand gestures and Google Translate). Having said that, I don't know when I have met anyone so eager to love and to learn. Jia is a lovable, precious, BUSY, adorable, and challenging young girl, to be sure, and we love her more than words can say. I watch her constantly--I have to--yet I do so with love and amazement. She is never afraid, she is always cheerful, and she is always willing to try (except, perhaps, with foods that differ from her traditional fare). All of this must be so hard in so many ways--yet she is so accepting and so happy. She inspires me to do better and try harder--she also wears me out!!!!!
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I hadn't checked your blog in a while and just got teary-eyed seeing the wonderful homecoming and Jia's new room and meeting her brothers ... all of it! Your family is indeed complete and it is beautiful. So, so happy for you all! xo
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