Monday, January 16, 2012

There's No Place Like Home...

We were greeted by posters, balloons, flowers, and a newly-cleaned house!  It feels so good to be home!  Thank you so much Cathy, Jim, Billy, Peggy, and Amanda!  And a special thank you to Charlie--our most amazing poster artist!


Jia's new room awaits....

Jia sees her room for the first time.  The picture is blurry, but you get the idea...  She twirled around taking it all in, reminding me of Maria at the beginning of The Sound of Music.

Welcome home, Jia Suzanne Haynie!

All dressed and ready to register for school.  Jia said, "Thank you, thank you, MaMa!"  The welcome home card from her best friend Lily (Bi Hong) is on the door behind her--she carried it with her for two days until we found just the right spot.

She would happily swing all day!

She's home! And look--there's a present for her from Ai Yi Peggy!

Amanda waits for Jia's arrival.


Her new room awaits the arrival of its new resident.  Jia's big brother, Misha, kindly gave up his room and moved to a smaller room downstairs. 

Jia asked me to take this picture of her snuggling with her favorite "goh" (dog).

Jia's favorite photo subject.

Jia's best friend, Sophie.  If there is a more patient and gentle animal on Earth, I have yet to meet him or her.  Jia has so much to learn about being kind, gentle, and compassionate, and Sophie is a wonderful teacher.
Jia had obviously never been on a swing before--she could do this all day!  I wish we still had a swingset in our yard!


Fun at the playground


All ready for the first day of school on Friday, January 13th.  She got up before 5, tried on three different outfits, and packed and re-packed her backpack at least that many times.  She is VERY happy and excited--as are her new classmates.

Shopping at Harris Teeter.
Visiting the Children's Museum in Portsmouth, Virginia.
Pretending to drive a bus!
Ready to put on her life jacket and steer the ship!
Jia has been making "gifts" for us on the computer--typing messages in Mandarin, cutting and pasting into Google Translate, and then typing (letter by letter) the translations for us into English using MS Word.  Here is her first "gift"--there have been many since.  :o)
Captain Jia.

Play-Doh:  "Jia eat?"  It seems that most everything (Play-Doh included) is new (and fun) to Jia.  Ah, but how to keep someone safe when, at the age of 10, she has no experience with, for example:  stoves (she turned on the gas to cook a box of rice--in the box), strangers and/or cars (while drawing with chalk on the driveway with me, she jumped in the backseat of a car that stopped to look at a house for sale across the street), opening car doors at stoplights, going to the bathroom while walking the dogs (hey, the dogs go in the grass, right?!), and on and on and on.  Again, there is so much to teach and to learn.  She is bright and extraordinarily capable.  In an hour, she could completely reconfigure my computer--yet she has no experience with cars, strangers, water, phones, stores, or most anything else that we take for granted.  Fortunately, we have been there at every second to try to explain and teach (albeit with hand gestures and Google Translate).  Having said that, I don't know when I have met anyone so eager to love and to learn.  Jia is a lovable, precious, BUSY, adorable, and challenging young girl, to be sure, and we love her more than words can say.  I watch her constantly--I have to--yet I do so with love and amazement.  She is never afraid, she is always cheerful, and she is always willing to try (except, perhaps, with foods that differ from her traditional fare).  All of this must be so hard in so many ways--yet she is so accepting and so happy.  She inspires me to do better and try harder--she also wears me out!!!!!












Friday, January 13, 2012

One Journey Ends...A New Journey Begins


Our Family.  Complete.





Jia LOVED her Hello Kitty balloon from Ai Yi Cathy...perhaps too much.  It lasted most of the way home in the car.  We will try to have it refilled at Party City.  :o)


Coming through Security--we can see balloons and signs, and we can hear our friends and loved ones shouting!  We are forever indebted to Steve's office, who did so much to make our homecoming an event we will never, ever forget!  WYNESTER, you are the BEST!



One happy little girl.
Ni hao, Jia!
So nice!
A hug from the world's happiest and proudest big brother, David (13).
A soft and sweet Minnie Mouse from Ai Yi Cathy.
Minnie, David, and Pikachu wait for our plane to land.
"Made in China."
"Hello, Day-way! (David)"
Misha and Amanda  <3
So happy and excited!

Check out that beautiful sign!!!!  Is Steve's office amazing, or what?!!!!!

















Wednesday, January 4, 2012

The Red Couch

"People who adopt children from China often learn the legend of the red thread, a mystical tie that will lead them, despite setbacks and challenges, to those they are fated to love.

At the White Swan Hotel in Guangzhou, China, there is a red couch that has come to embody both that cultural legend and the adoption dreams of thousands of families.

The couch has become famous as the place where many parents take some of their first photos of their newly adopted children.

It is a literal love seat, a resting place that says the journey to find each other - to follow the red thread even as it twists and tangles - is complete."  (Excerpted from The Philadelphia Inquirer, April 28, 2011)


As a symbolic final act before leaving for the airport today, we took Jia to the White Swan Hotel on Shamian Island (Guangzhou, China) to have her photograph taken on its famous red couch.  Here is our lovely daughter, pictured on the red couch in the traditional garments of her amazing homeland:











And here are some additional photographs taken that same afternoon at the beautiful White Swan Hotel (and yes, those are essentially the same clothes we will be wearing when we arrive in Norfolk, some 30+ hours later...):







In the lobby of our hotel, our adoption group prepares to leave for the Guangjhou Airport: